You adore your beloved because she\’s the woman you\’ve always wanted to have. But you\’re a grown man who can no longer get by with just a fairy-tale perfect face. You should also think about the future, in which this lady at home won\’t lift a finger. If she\’s a stranger to the home and relies on you for everything, it\’s time to think about looking elsewhere. Or you could try teaching her something.
A few tricks to help your doll be a woman:
1. Embarrass her:Try to put her in a situation where she feels guilty for not being in charge of something. In this case, it is quite appropriate to remember the fact that your mother took care of you. Maybe she\’ll understand that women aren\’t just for show.
2. Involve her in cooking:If she\’s never held a stove in her hand and takes the pot as a bowl to put things in, suggest that you cook something together. You say you can\’t cook? Never mind, what\’s guaranteed to bond your relationship are the activities you do together. Take it as a challenge and cook a meal, let her know that a restaurant isn\’t the only place to eat.
3. Take her to a family celebration:Such a big family event requires a lot of preparation and also a lot of clean up! If you sit on the couch with her, she won\’t budge on her own. It\’s up to you to suggest to her that you get involved in the preparations together and then maybe even do the dishes. Have a few of these celebrations and the next one, she\’ll be “wobbling” on her own without being asked.
4. Invite friends:When friends are coming over, you need to treat them to something. Teach her to be independent, she needs to clean up and prepare something to eat before they arrive. And it won\’t do itself!
5. Don\’t give away money!:If you shower her with large amounts of money (for all her cosmetics and fancy clothes) it is quite likely that you will spoil her and she will not appreciate anything. Does she want to buy something? She can earn the money herself and use it to buy only what she can afford. Teach her humility!
6. A friend can help:Do you have a female friend in your neighborhood who is helpful and could enlighten your partner on what kind of woman is useful in life? Have her talk to her. Maybe then she\’ll be able to see that a woman\’s life isn\’t just about pretty lipstick and perfect makeup.
THE GOAL IS NOT TO MAKE HER A MAID!
Women are not machines! It is not the duty of any woman to do everything around the house, cooking and man herself. If you already have such a fiflena at home, you can show her what a woman is like in the carriage and in the carriage, but keep in mind that your helping hand will always be needed! Your partner is not supposed to serve you or take care of you like a baby. So always appreciate everything she stands for at home! And if it gets too much, be sure to help her out.